4 Basic Fears

Our business in life is to achieve success. In
order to be successful you must find peace
of mind, acquire the material needs of life,
and above all attain happiness. All of these
begins with thoughts in the mind, but
sometimes fear can prevent us from acquiring these things.

Fear is a universal thing. There are so many different fears
that it would be next to impossible to name them all. It takes
time to overcome most fear, it could take minutes, days, months,
years, and in some cases even a lifetime.

In Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hills speaks about six basic
fears that the human suffers at one time or another. I'd like
to address four basic fears people encounter as they seek to
succeed in the area of their professional life.

They are:
Fear of Competition-People love to compare themselves to others.
They generally use the state of others lives to measure their own
progress or lack of it. The end result is usually they end up feeling
as if they are not worthy to compete.

Fear of Controversy-This one is most common. People are emotionally
charged and the fear of coming up against any dispute hold many
back from success.

Fear of What People Say-Personal growth/development can really
assist in this area. What people say shouldn't affect your actions
because it is none of your business what others think of YOU. The
only thing that matters is what you think of yourself.

Fear of Things You Can't Control-Shed worry and anxiety by not
giving attention to things you have no control over. Instead, fix
your mind on those that are in your control such as your attitude
and actions.

Success is not about competition, controversy or what others say.
Success is an internal job. Strengthen your inner being and the
outer will fall into place.

Rena Williams

Is It a Want or Need?

There is a world of difference between
want and need. One attract things to
you and the other repels things away
from you. It doesn't matter if it is money,
success, relationships, or anything else.
It works exactly the same.

You see, want comes from a vibration that
says "okay, I'm happy already and I would
like to have this too." Need sends a
vibration that says "I'm miserable
and frustrated and I need this thing so I can be happy!"

This may appear to be something new, because you were never
taught in this manner. You were always encouraged to set the
goals, have a burning desire, and keep a positive attitude if you
want to reach your dreams. Not many teach the difference in the
vibrations of what you say you want and what you need.

I know this must sound so simple and many try to classify them as
being one in the same. But trust me they are not the same.

Have you ever noticed how some folks try so hard to get others to like
or approve of them? Maybe you have done the same yourself! This
doesn't work. The harder you try to get others to like you or if you
feel like you NEED them to like you, the less they will.

That's with anything, not just relationship. Need is a negative
emotion or vibration. So, whenever your negative need feelings
arise, just know that you are pushing away what you really want.
So quickly acknowledge those bad feelings and switch your thought
to feelings that feel good.

The reason you want to recognize the "feel bad" feelings at first sign,
is because you don't want to spend much time there. The longer you
stay in a feel bad vibration, this is where you repel your wants. The
Universe is being signal from the vibration you are holding that says
"you cannot be happy."

When you are in this state, all the affirmations, self talk, nor dream
boards are of NO effect, until you change these bad vibrations into
good vibrations.

When the things you say you want, line up with a feel good vibration,
then and only then are you on your way to reaching goals.

Get better at keeping your emotions in check, when you take part in
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Rena Williams

30 Day Cleanse Compares To A 30 Day Trial

One of the most difficult part of starting
any new habit is making it through the
first month. I know you'll agree with
me when I say the first few days are the
toughest. The initial thought about
changing a habit on a permanent basis creates
feelings of overwhelming fear, but to think
about it as 30 days at a time makes the task
much more smoothier.

But once you get pass the first 30 days it then becomes much
easier to keep going because at this point you have overcome
the roughest resistance.

This is why we introduce our mental cleanse as a 30 day cleanse.
Think of it in the terms of a 30 day trial period. With a thirty
day trial, instead of making a permanent commitment, you make a
temporary commitment to create a new habit.

Once the period is up you're free to quit and return to your old
ways of doing things. It's only one month out of your life.
Isn't your life worth thirty days?

So for 30 days we are going to aim at cleaning up the mind by
creating new habits. These habits will only consist of those
that serve us in positive ways.

The trial will consist of shutting off the television, staying
away from newspaper reading, radio, online negativity. You will
eliminate all the negative surroundings. This includes ridding
yourself of negative people that talk about others.

You will strive daily to consume your mind with personal growth
activities such as reading inspiring books, listening to success
seminars and only hang around and converse with like minded
people that already have the things that you want in life.

Chances are at the end of your 30 days you will find that your
ability to continue in your new habits will be much greater than
when you first started the trial. I know that you will
accomplish great results and if you are ready, why not make it a
permanent habit? Regardless, if you choose permanent or
temporary, isn't your life worth 30 days?

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