Fearless Living

This is a post from the author of The Essentials
Laws of Fearless Living: Guy Finley

Have you ever seen rage in yourself? Generally, we don't want to see certain states within us because we've been conditioned to think of them as bad for us. We don't understand that these states are part of a world that can be changed when the light is brought to them.

What happens when we see things about ourselves that we don't want to see?

In order to avoid looking at itself, the mind will seize on the rage it has seen, and it will try to explain it. It will take the initial darkness, the negative energy, and because it seems to be so bad, the mind will make something out of it that it can deal with.

When we live from a nature that does not want to see its own self, then there's no chance that self, that nature, can ever change. When we hide from ourselves the way we feel, the only thing that we're accomplishing is the assurance that these feelings will return again... only more of them! It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy: we condemn and doom ourselves by being afraid of the darkness in us.

We have one thing to do with our own states, and that is to see them as they are, to catch the part of us that's afraid of being what we've just seen, to stop trying to hide anything anymore... because we're on this earth to learn.

Negative states are created for the purpose within ourselves of being changed into something else. Everything that happens within us is all part of this beautiful process: anything that we are willing to bring into the light of ourselves will be changed by the light we bring it into.

So instead of going along with the answers that you give yourself for why you feel the way you do -- instead of excuses, rationales, justifications for your state (which are the mind's way of trying to deflect the state) -- don't hide it. Just simply see it. If you don't explain yourself to yourself, then all that's left is yourself and your awareness of it. You're not talking to yourself anymore about what you see. There's just seeing.

Don't hide anymore. There is something beautiful that doesn't have fear in it that wants to touch us. Its touch is what changes us. We cannot change ourselves. All the ways in which we excuse these dark parts are efforts on the part of the darkness to change itself, to deal with it, to get around it. Stop trying to get around a negative state. Bring the negative state into the light of your awareness, and let that awareness do what it is intended to do, which is to change it, to transform it.

I Hope you enjoyed this reading!
~Rena Williams~

-- Guy Finley

Your Best Network Marketing Tool

Ninety-two percent of the world's population is sales resistant.
People don't like to be sold. People don't like to sell.

How about YOU? Do YOU like to be sold? How do you feel when You
walk into a shoe store and some sales clerk comes up, trying to sell
you, shove you, get you to buy some shoe that's on sale.

No, No, NO!!! You Want To Buy What YOU Want!

Most people are sales resistant. If you don't get this and you try to sell
them, you will ALWAYS struggle in network marketing. You must to
learn to listen. Again, 92% of the world's population is sales resistant.
That is an overwhelming number, if you're out there trying to sell them!

You have spent your entire life recommending and promoting things
to people. Books, movies, restaurants, websites, recipes, stores,
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sudden in network marketing, someone tells you to make a list of
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This upline guru leader wants to turn you into that pushy, aggressive
salesperson that nobody likes. can you see why it doesn't work?

There is a better way to reach people, its called Listening!

When you listen to people, this will allow you to build a know, like,
and trust relationship that will allow you to consistently build your
business, day by day.

As you learn the four main personality types, you can teach your
people to teach their team. This will eliminate the sales mode.
Instead, they'll be in the mode of trying to figure out, "How can I
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As you find out what Color type they are, you find out their
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Because, just like not everyone wears the same size shoe, not
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When you listen and learn which personality types they are, you
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A Tip On How To Avoid A Scam

As You absorb this information it will be clear that
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When You pay say, $99.00, $199.00, $299.00 or
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They may try to call it a Franchise Fee or maybe
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Take a look at Most Illegal Programs. You pay say
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You cannot make money sponsoring someone in
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No Retail able product "NO" business opportunity.

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To Your Success,

Rena Williams

MLM Tip #23

Tip #23-Know What Your Prospects Want

This is another huge mistake network marketers
are making.

Whenever you enter into a relationship focused on YOUR agenda,
you are failing to listen to the prospect’s wants, needs, and hurts.
They will quickly see that what is important to you is what YOU want.
This is not the way to build stable long lasting relationships.

So, it is so very important that you learn to listen. That means
getting the agenda out of the way so that you may hear the needs of
your prospect. Then and only then will you start to build life changing
relationships, right before your eyes.

The best way to learn to listen is to study the personality types.
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To your success,

Rena Williams

3 Skills That Builds Relationships

It's amazing how tough this is for most people, but it is. The thing that builds relationships is being yourself. When you are reading from a script when you talk to people, that doesn't work. If you have a set plan, one-two-three-four, some mental checklist you use every time you talk to any and everybody that doesn't work either. What does work is to:

1. Be yourself.
2. Genuinely care for people.
3. Show true empathy for people.

The 3 conditions that destroy relationships are:

1. The need to control
2. Being judgmental
3. Being self-righteous

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To your success,

Rena

Why People Quit MLM

People quit because they believe they don’t deserve success.
They think success is outside of themselves. So they’ll blame
the upline, the product, the compensation plan, the time of day,
the month of the year.

Yet, the real reason they quit is, they don’t believe they
deserve success. If you don’t work with them on that, they
will quit. They will use every excuse. “You sponsored me
and you never called me!” They will blame YOU. But in reality,
they just know that success is outside of them.

Personal development is a must it goes hand-in-hand with MLM
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getting their assets protected, and so forth.

And when you’re working in that environment, around all those
people, just the fact of being there ensures that you will learn all that
stuff. You will grow to be more than you ever thought possible.

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To your success,

Rena Williams

Thursday 10/15/09

Successful people learn to think from the end--that is,

they experience what they wish to intend before it

shows up in material form.

You can do the same thing.

~Rena Williams~