Nov 30, 2009

From Failure To Success

He Knew He Was Onto Something Big!
Don Standard Success Story

Texas - I started network marketing around 1980. It looked too easy to be true. I was right. It took 25 years to learn the truth about how to do it.

Making a list of friends and family didn't sound like a good idea. But I did it. I signed up one family member who quit. No friends - ever. I started talking to strangers. I hated it, but I sponsored one every 4 to 6 weeks. But I never had two people on my team at the same time in three years. The last one always quit before the next one signed up.

I went to seminars, joined different companies. I learned from each failure, but never seemed any closer to success. Then the internet appeared. MLMers from wall to wall, looking for prospects. Most potential prospects had multiple businesses - and multiple failures.

I learned to get prospects. But converting them to team members was nearly impossible.

I went into a learning and testing phase. I sponsored large numbers of people into free programs. Of course, that never made me any money. But it was a start.

Then I found the ebook, "Success In 10 Steps". I had hundreds of unread downloaded documents, but this one interested me. I printed it out and started reading. Next day, I took it to work, finished it. Every idea seemed to be opposite what I had been told. I could look at some of my previous companies and see why I had so much trouble. I read the ebook 3 times in 3 days.

Email messages got me on free training calls. I never missed a single call for months. I never said a word ... just listened.

I knew I was onto something big. From my experience, I knew the people at Mentoring For Free were telling the truth about MLM. That was good, after 25 years of failure and frustration. I used the information from the calls to evaluate network marketing companies. I googled people using the Mentoring For Free system. I found companies they may have been in and/or previous companies. I added all the other companies I knew and started evaluating.

I quickly learned to find "deal killers". Some things are so bad they can't be overcome by good things. I narrowed hundreds of companies down to five - which I compared every day for over a week. In the end, one company came up on top every time. It was so superior that there really was not a second to consider. I hope you also find a company so clearly ahead of all others that you can make the choice and never have a second thought.

Still ... could I be successful at network marketing? I joined the company. I plugged into the MentoringForFree system and got some leads. Mostly I just watched and listened ... for 11 more months. Finally, I was ready to go for it. And it worked. I grew my business fast. I sponsored as many people in a month or so as I used to sponsor in a year.

And they didn't quit. I plugged them into MentoringForFree and helped get them started. We were a team, all using the system. People just like me who had experienced failure and frustration for years were now successful.

The Mentoring For Free system changed my life and the lives of people on my team. Now I grow my business easily and consistently. Network Marketing is fun. Just the way it really should be. Click Here To Get The Same Ebook!

Nov 11, 2009

Fearless Living

This is a post from the author of The Essentials
Laws of Fearless Living: Guy Finley

Have you ever seen rage in yourself? Generally, we don't want to see certain states within us because we've been conditioned to think of them as bad for us. We don't understand that these states are part of a world that can be changed when the light is brought to them.

What happens when we see things about ourselves that we don't want to see?

In order to avoid looking at itself, the mind will seize on the rage it has seen, and it will try to explain it. It will take the initial darkness, the negative energy, and because it seems to be so bad, the mind will make something out of it that it can deal with.

When we live from a nature that does not want to see its own self, then there's no chance that self, that nature, can ever change. When we hide from ourselves the way we feel, the only thing that we're accomplishing is the assurance that these feelings will return again... only more of them! It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy: we condemn and doom ourselves by being afraid of the darkness in us.

We have one thing to do with our own states, and that is to see them as they are, to catch the part of us that's afraid of being what we've just seen, to stop trying to hide anything anymore... because we're on this earth to learn.

Negative states are created for the purpose within ourselves of being changed into something else. Everything that happens within us is all part of this beautiful process: anything that we are willing to bring into the light of ourselves will be changed by the light we bring it into.

So instead of going along with the answers that you give yourself for why you feel the way you do -- instead of excuses, rationales, justifications for your state (which are the mind's way of trying to deflect the state) -- don't hide it. Just simply see it. If you don't explain yourself to yourself, then all that's left is yourself and your awareness of it. You're not talking to yourself anymore about what you see. There's just seeing.

Don't hide anymore. There is something beautiful that doesn't have fear in it that wants to touch us. Its touch is what changes us. We cannot change ourselves. All the ways in which we excuse these dark parts are efforts on the part of the darkness to change itself, to deal with it, to get around it. Stop trying to get around a negative state. Bring the negative state into the light of your awareness, and let that awareness do what it is intended to do, which is to change it, to transform it.

I Hope you enjoyed this reading!
~Rena Williams~

-- Guy Finley

Nov 2, 2009

Your Best Network Marketing Tool

Ninety-two percent of the world's population is sales resistant.
People don't like to be sold. People don't like to sell.

How about YOU? Do YOU like to be sold? How do you feel when You
walk into a shoe store and some sales clerk comes up, trying to sell
you, shove you, get you to buy some shoe that's on sale.

No, No, NO!!! You Want To Buy What YOU Want!

Most people are sales resistant. If you don't get this and you try to sell
them, you will ALWAYS struggle in network marketing. You must to
learn to listen. Again, 92% of the world's population is sales resistant.
That is an overwhelming number, if you're out there trying to sell them!

You have spent your entire life recommending and promoting things
to people. Books, movies, restaurants, websites, recipes, stores,
schools, parks, and experts The list goes on and on. Now all of a
sudden in network marketing, someone tells you to make a list of
your friends and family, call them up, let's beat 'em up and SELL them!

This upline guru leader wants to turn you into that pushy, aggressive
salesperson that nobody likes. can you see why it doesn't work?

There is a better way to reach people, its called Listening!

When you listen to people, this will allow you to build a know, like,
and trust relationship that will allow you to consistently build your
business, day by day.

As you learn the four main personality types, you can teach your
people to teach their team. This will eliminate the sales mode.
Instead, they'll be in the mode of trying to figure out, "How can I
best help this person?"

As you find out what Color type they are, you find out their
personality, and their hot buttons. Why is that so important?
Because, just like not everyone wears the same size shoe, not
every prospect will have the same needs and wants in their life.

When you listen and learn which personality types they are, you
then have the ability to communicate directly with that person
according to THEIR wants and needs. That will make all the
difference in the world in your business.

Would you like to know an Easy way to learn the personality types?
Color To Success!

Rena Williams