A Tip On How To Avoid A Scam

As You absorb this information it will be clear that
this Tip could keep You out of trouble by keeping
You out of 100% of all the Scams that call them
selves a Network Marketing Business Opportunity.

We are NOT talking about a McDonald's franchise,
stocks, bonds, life insurance, trading in currency,
we are talking about Network Marketing.

You cannot "pay" money to Own a Business. Let
me explain this so everybody can get this "Fact".

When You pay say, $99.00, $199.00, $299.00 or
$399.00 or even $499.00 to join a business,, You
MUST receive Something of value that You would
buy without the business opportunity attached to it.

They may try to call it a Franchise Fee or maybe
a Training Fee or a Train the Trainer Fee this is all
100% "Illegal" and will put You in big trouble.

Take a look at Most Illegal Programs. You pay say
$399.00 to be a distributor and all You get for Your
money spent is a web-site and the opportunity to do
the same "to" other people.

They have a "Hard Cost" of say $25.00 for the web-
site, they pay $350.00 of Your CASH to the up-line
that recruited You into the illegal deal.

You cannot make money sponsoring someone in
the business......The NEW person MUST receive
Something of value for their CASH spent.

No Retail able product "NO" business opportunity.

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To Your Success,

Rena Williams

MLM Tip #23

Tip #23-Know What Your Prospects Want

This is another huge mistake network marketers
are making.

Whenever you enter into a relationship focused on YOUR agenda,
you are failing to listen to the prospect’s wants, needs, and hurts.
They will quickly see that what is important to you is what YOU want.
This is not the way to build stable long lasting relationships.

So, it is so very important that you learn to listen. That means
getting the agenda out of the way so that you may hear the needs of
your prospect. Then and only then will you start to build life changing
relationships, right before your eyes.

The best way to learn to listen is to study the personality types.
This plus much more are taught in our free mentoring classes.
Want to know more? Here's a free ebook to guide you along.
Download here

To your success,

Rena Williams

3 Skills That Builds Relationships

It's amazing how tough this is for most people, but it is. The thing that builds relationships is being yourself. When you are reading from a script when you talk to people, that doesn't work. If you have a set plan, one-two-three-four, some mental checklist you use every time you talk to any and everybody that doesn't work either. What does work is to:

1. Be yourself.
2. Genuinely care for people.
3. Show true empathy for people.

The 3 conditions that destroy relationships are:

1. The need to control
2. Being judgmental
3. Being self-righteous

The Key To Your Happiness In Life And Your Success In Business Is Learning To Listen. You can learn this skill and many others absolutely free each week with Free Mentoring. Want to know more?

Here's a free ebook you can download to help you along your way.
http://renawms.successin10steps.com

To your success,

Rena

Why People Quit MLM

People quit because they believe they don’t deserve success.
They think success is outside of themselves. So they’ll blame
the upline, the product, the compensation plan, the time of day,
the month of the year.

Yet, the real reason they quit is, they don’t believe they
deserve success. If you don’t work with them on that, they
will quit. They will use every excuse. “You sponsored me
and you never called me!” They will blame YOU. But in reality,
they just know that success is outside of them.

Personal development is a must it goes hand-in-hand with MLM
success. For you to make more, you have to become more. As
you’re working with a team, a group of mastermind people, they’re
all making money. They’re learning about handling money, investing,
getting their assets protected, and so forth.

And when you’re working in that environment, around all those
people, just the fact of being there ensures that you will learn all that
stuff. You will grow to be more than you ever thought possible.

As you grow, as your people grow, your team becomes stronger and
more stable. You get staying power, which is one of the most
important criteria in achieving long-term success.

Down load your free copy of Success In 10 Steps and sign up for a free
MLM mastermind newsletter.

To your success,

Rena Williams

Thursday 10/15/09

Successful people learn to think from the end--that is,

they experience what they wish to intend before it

shows up in material form.

You can do the same thing.

~Rena Williams~

Never Be Desperate!

The author of the ebook Success In 10 Steps, Michael Dlouhy
also wrote a previous book titled "The 35 Biggest Mistakes
Everyone is Making in Network Marketing and How To Avoid Them"

Mistake #4 is"Being so desperate, you'll recruit anyone who can fog a mirror"

Because network marketing is all about relationships and not selling,
people can feel the difference. If you're not building a relationship
with them, they sense you are treating them as a number.

It's wise to be selective about who you want in your business. Find
and talk with people that already have a dream. If not you will spend
your entire time trying to motivate and inspire them and eventually
end up trying to build the dream for them.

I heard a man full of wisdom (My Mentor) say only put people in your
business that you would want to go on a one month cruise with.
Anyone other, will only drain your energy and life is just not worth all
the wasted effort.

Sounds like great advice to me!
[For more mlm Mistakes updates join my Facebook group]

To your success,

Rena

Overcoming Obstacles To Success

How Did They Do It?

An Ebook, Michael, 10 Hours of Weekly Training!

Persistence, it's the one word that can describe my Success Story. Thinking back to when I started looking to create an additional income takes me back to my teenage years. I always dreamed of building an empire that would pay my children's children. What was missing for almost 20 years was a plan. The statement: "Failing to plan is planning to fail" describes that time period in my life.

Overcoming Obstacles

In 2003 I decided to see what all the fuss was about making millions on the internet. I watched a few informercials and got a few websites out of the opportunity section of some magazines and I was off on my journey to discover the end of the internet!

Everything I looked at made my stomach crawl. Nothing seemed legit or legal. I finally came across a free program and I spent 6 months being frustrated. In those 6 months I had no contact, other than emails, with any of my upline. I finally headed back out on to the internet to find a new opportunity. I spent almost 2 years with my next adventure. I had an awesome direct upline that had joined 1 month before me and we clicked right away. There would still be many hurdles for us to jump over.

I was constantly scratching my head trying to figure out why the upline was so diligent in making it so difficult for us. They constantly held back information, they played the favorites game, they played people off of each other and they manipulated downlines. My team was growing and the money was trickling in, but I was really struggling.

Then through advertising, I came across a sweet lady who asked if I had ever read "Success in 10 Steps"? I had seen the ads for it all over the internet but I kept passing it over. I finally decided to download the book based on this sweet lady's recommendation.

A month passed and I finally decided to read the ebook. After being beaten up and kicked around, I was skeptical. But I could not put the book down. I immediately felt the relief. My LACK of Success was NOT my Fault. WOW!

I called the lady who had recommended the ebook. I jumped on the weekly training calls and when I heard how easy it was to talk to people about the ebook, I knew I had found the system and training that could grow my business.

With the ebook and Michael and 10+ hours of training a week, how could we not have Success? It gave us a proven duplicatable system to build our business. We have sponsored a few who have sponsored a few, and so on, and so on. I have the support of Michael Dlouhy and the dynamic team at Mentoring For Free who share information and offer guidance. Anne and I thank them from the bottom of our hearts!

Anne and I are solid users of the MFF system and have been using it for 3 years. It is as simple as 1,2,3. Without MFF and its duplication we never would have reached Diamond in our Company or been able to help others reach Diamond as well.

Click Here for the ebook!

Rena Williams

Leadership Principles

I believe we all have an appointed purpose and destiny in life.
Our destiny is something we must uncover, not something that
we are automatically aware of.

Along this search for our purpose, many embark upon the role
of leadership. These are usually people that have developed the
courage to endure even when the going gets tough.

Below is a list of principles that people in leadership have come
to understand.

1. It's not going to be fair-Leaders will do more than their share.
Life is not fair but, we do it anyway.

2. Leadership is an inside job-Leaders know how to feed their
own flame. They don't expect others to keep them motivated.

3. Expect Obstacles and Problems-Leaders perservere,
they keep the attitude of this too shall pass.

4. Success is not easy-Leaders understand success is earned, not given.

5. Winners play hurt-Leaders may not always feel like keeping on, but they do.

6. Role of leadership requires thick skin-Leaders stand out from
the crowd. They take a stand for what's right.

7. Purpose is the key-Leaders stand for a cause, they know who
they are and why they are doing what they do.

To Your Success,

Rena Williams
Mentor

Figures Don't Lie But Liars Do Figure

A Network Marketing Awareness

Advertising copywriters and salespeople are trained to give specific
numbers. in order to increase credibility. And that's great, if those
numbers have any basis in reality. In network marketing, they often don't.

Here's an example:
Companies say, "We keep 93% of Our people!" They are lying to you.

This is the truth: There was an MLM phone company a few years back
that had to publicize their retention rate, because they were publicly
traded. They're out of business now, so I'll go ahead and mention their name - Excel.

Take a guess. Out of every 100 people Excel signed up, how many
were still in the business a year later? Did you guess 50%? HAH!
What about 25%? As they say in the Hertz commercial, "Not exactly!"
10%? You're getting warm.

Excel's public record showed 6% to 7% retention. That's not 67% - it's
6 to 7% retention! So you build your network marketing business for a year:

* You buy advertising.

* You do 3-way calls.

* You go to meetings.

* You talk to all your friends and relatives.

* And you wind up recruiting 100 people!

Yippee! You're almost rich.

Well, not exactly. Why? Because what you have left is 6 to 7 people
out of 100 (!) still building the MLM.

Ooops, wait - that's not all you've got. You also have:

* Smashed dreams.

* Maxed-out credit cards.

* And probably a LARGE bunch of people who hide when they see you coming!

Does any of this sounds familiar? Whatever you do in network
marketing must be duplicatable for the masses. If NOT, you are done!

To your success,

Rena

4 Basic Fears

Our business in life is to achieve success. In
order to be successful you must find peace
of mind, acquire the material needs of life,
and above all attain happiness. All of these
begins with thoughts in the mind, but
sometimes fear can prevent us from acquiring these things.

Fear is a universal thing. There are so many different fears
that it would be next to impossible to name them all. It takes
time to overcome most fear, it could take minutes, days, months,
years, and in some cases even a lifetime.

In Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hills speaks about six basic
fears that the human suffers at one time or another. I'd like
to address four basic fears people encounter as they seek to
succeed in the area of their professional life.

They are:
Fear of Competition-People love to compare themselves to others.
They generally use the state of others lives to measure their own
progress or lack of it. The end result is usually they end up feeling
as if they are not worthy to compete.

Fear of Controversy-This one is most common. People are emotionally
charged and the fear of coming up against any dispute hold many
back from success.

Fear of What People Say-Personal growth/development can really
assist in this area. What people say shouldn't affect your actions
because it is none of your business what others think of YOU. The
only thing that matters is what you think of yourself.

Fear of Things You Can't Control-Shed worry and anxiety by not
giving attention to things you have no control over. Instead, fix
your mind on those that are in your control such as your attitude
and actions.

Success is not about competition, controversy or what others say.
Success is an internal job. Strengthen your inner being and the
outer will fall into place.

Rena Williams

Commonality of Success

Success is a goal that can be achieved by anyone.
Many don't agree with this saying, yet it is true.

If you were to ask any successful
person, one after another, how
they reached their goals, you will
more than likely have a list of the same success commonality.

To be successful you must first have the desire. A desire
to be more, do more and have more than you currently do.

Success is making a commitment. Make a commitment to
yourself that you will get from life all that you want.

Success requires these three things, to:
1. Know what you WANT.
2. Know what it will COST to get it.
3. Be willing to PAY the PRICE.

The road to success requires many additional things, but
the most important one is to be willing to INVEST in YOU.
You must learn to have right thinking about yourself. People
are their own worst critics.

Learn how to develop a strong self image of yourself. Imagine
being the person you want to become. Everything begins with
imagination. Napoleon Hill teaches that imagination is more
important than knowledge.

If you are going to be successful, you must begin with the end
result in mind. See yourself doing the things you would like to
do and being the person you want to become.

The time has come to stop wishing and start creating a life of
success. The life you were meant to have.

Most people attend our master mind classes and learn to develop
such skills for success. All for free!

Road to Success Classes

Rena Williams

What's Bad Business In MLM

We can agree that network marketing is
a mentoring, learning, and a relationship
building business to reach higher levels of success.

This is why, Whatever you do in network
marketing must be duplicatable for the
masses. Six to seven percent retention is not smart business.

Results like this make it obvious why we
coach people to first find a "5-Pillar"
company, and make sure you build relationships
with prospects.

It is bad business to recruit someone into an unstable company.
It is bad business to recruit someone before you have built a relationship with them.

When you recruit a person who is your friend into a "5 Pillar"
company, the two of you have a commitment to each other
and a strong chance for success.

When you try a business relationship without that personal, mutual
commitment, or with an unstable company, then your chances of
failure skyrocket.

It is the truth and it is bad business in mlm.

You can sharpen your network marketing skills all week by dialing
in to our generic mentoring sessions. We want to save you from
unnecessary failure and frustration.

I Appreciate You,

Rena Williams

The Dark Side Of MLM

People figure if they have a great company, great products, excellent
marketing plan, good skills, proven track record, and on and on,
success in this business should be like rolling off a log.

And then they get crushed UNDER the log!

There are some facets of this MLM business that are so obvious,
you may take them for granted and never actually DO them.

For instance, your prospects MUST have a very powerful reason to
choose YOU over all their other 650 home business options.

Relationship building is crucial, so you definitely want to build a
relationship with them. And you also want to make an impression
on them that they will NEVER forget!

I don't know your business, I don't know what advantage YOU offer
that puts you head and shoulders above your competition.

I only know that if you can't offer that kind of advantage, You will end
up ROADKILL!! With no chance of surviving in this business. None!

So, to help give you some ideas, I'll tell you the advantage we offer
our prospects that elevates us above all the competition:

I'll provide a lead generation system that brings ONLY the most
qualified people into your group, no matter what company you are
building. Then I'll train your prospects FREE, 4 nights a week - without
mentioning any product or company to build relationships and become
Top MLM Sponsors who will build YOU a lifetime residual income!

You are certainly welcome to become part of our group and use this
advantage as your own. The best part is, its all generic and absolutely
duplicatable.

But in any event, you MUST be able to put YOUR focused advantage
into a few words to create a lasting impression and elevate you above
all your network marketing competition.

It makes all the difference!

To get more info about this program click here.

Rena

Check Your Gauge

People instantly look for reasons why something
won't work. Maybe it's the way we are wired.
Being negative is a behavior we don't really
give much thought to until we find ourselves
being a student of self development.

Before engaging in personal growth our words
are mostly negative than positive. So, become aware of your words.

If you find yourself constantly saying things like"this won't
work because...I can't do that because...", you need to check
your gauge.

Your positive and negative gauge can be compared to the gas gauge
on your car dash-panel.

When the needle is straight up you can consider yourself somewhat
balanced in your thinking and speaking. If it is more to the left
you are headed toward empty. That's a negative reading. When the
needle is more to the right, you are leaning towards the full mark,
which is a positive reading.

You might want to check your gauge often to see which way the
majority of your words, answers, and speech fall the most.
In the negative or positive. Where your gauge is, can make a
huge difference in how quickly you reach your goals.

Rena Williams

Attracting or Chasing Success

In a previous article we talked a bit about the difference
between want and need. Just like there's a difference in
the two, so is it with a burning desire and a desire that
burns you.

There is definitely a balancing act between the two desires.
When you have a burning desire you are creating the right
mindset that is going to attract to you the thing you want.

However, if that desire is connected to feelings of "I'm
miserable unless I have this thing" then your desire is now
burning you.

Just like the senario of the more there's a need to be liked
by others, the less others like you. The same goes for success.
Anytime you chase success, that success will always run faster
than you will.

Your objective should be to attract success, not chase it. When
you chase success you are repelling it and you never get what
you are chasing. The attraction and repulsion forces are always
at work. Sometimes you will attract more than you repel and vice
versa. It simply depends on which force is the strongest at any
given time.

Like any other skill, you can learn to attract more than you repel.
When you change the way you are feeling, the mental picture of the
situation changes.

The key is to go through your day without resistance, as much as
possible. Next, keep your burning desire in mind, which is your
goal.

It's important that you don't expect your goal to give you happiness.
Don't let your desire for the goal burn you by feeling bad because you
don't yet have it. It is critical to be able to walk away from it
emotionally, even when you want the goal.

If you can happy even when you don't have in your possession the
thing you want, then you are attracting it to you. If you are unhappy
because you don't have in your possession the thing you NEED, then
you are repelling it.

These are the difference between attracting and chasing success.

To Your Success,

Rena

Is It a Want or Need?

There is a world of difference between
want and need. One attract things to
you and the other repels things away
from you. It doesn't matter if it is money,
success, relationships, or anything else.
It works exactly the same.

You see, want comes from a vibration that
says "okay, I'm happy already and I would
like to have this too." Need sends a
vibration that says "I'm miserable
and frustrated and I need this thing so I can be happy!"

This may appear to be something new, because you were never
taught in this manner. You were always encouraged to set the
goals, have a burning desire, and keep a positive attitude if you
want to reach your dreams. Not many teach the difference in the
vibrations of what you say you want and what you need.

I know this must sound so simple and many try to classify them as
being one in the same. But trust me they are not the same.

Have you ever noticed how some folks try so hard to get others to like
or approve of them? Maybe you have done the same yourself! This
doesn't work. The harder you try to get others to like you or if you
feel like you NEED them to like you, the less they will.

That's with anything, not just relationship. Need is a negative
emotion or vibration. So, whenever your negative need feelings
arise, just know that you are pushing away what you really want.
So quickly acknowledge those bad feelings and switch your thought
to feelings that feel good.

The reason you want to recognize the "feel bad" feelings at first sign,
is because you don't want to spend much time there. The longer you
stay in a feel bad vibration, this is where you repel your wants. The
Universe is being signal from the vibration you are holding that says
"you cannot be happy."

When you are in this state, all the affirmations, self talk, nor dream
boards are of NO effect, until you change these bad vibrations into
good vibrations.

When the things you say you want, line up with a feel good vibration,
then and only then are you on your way to reaching goals.

Get better at keeping your emotions in check, when you take part in
a Master Mind group of like minded people.


Rena Williams

Paralyzed By Fear?

Are you one who is paralyzed by fear or
empowered by hope?

Let's face it, there are many symptoms
of fear. There's the fear of loss, fear of
pain, fear of death, fear of failure,
even fear of success. The most
common fear of all that grips people
the hardest is the fear of criticism.

People will refuse to take chances in
business or act on any endeavor because they are afraid to
be criticized. They feel that failure will come about as a result
of the criticism, and usually it does.

Most people are insanely fearful. Can you imagine going through
your life being miserable and unhappy because of a mistake or
poor choice in marriage? The very act of choosing not to make
corrections because of the criticism that may come from the
efforts of correcting the mistake? It happens everyday.

The majority of society allow relatives, friends, and others to
influence their lives and any decision, so they cannot live their
own lives for fear of criticism.

One thing I know is criticism is highly over rated. Napoleon Hill
says it's the one thing that everyone has too much of. He went on
to say even a thief will criticize the very person he's stealing
from. Fear of criticism has been a long standing problem for many.
So much so that Napoleon Hill dedicated a whole section on it in
his classic book "Think and Grow Rich".

So, how do we wean ourselves from the grips of being afraid of this
fear? By learning to develop courage through hope. The Bible tells us
continuously to "Fear Not". We start by trusting and developing hope
in a power much greater than ourselves.

At Mentoring For Free we teach that network marketing is a
relationship building business. Well, so is life. The first and
foremost relationship needful is one with ourselves and our Source.

Learn to be empowered by hope. This and so much more can be
accomplished by being a part of our master mind group of like
minded people. By doing so you will discover hope for a better future
with no more fear.

To your success,

Rena Williams
Mentor/Coach

The Three Stages of Truth

Within every truth, you will find there are three stages.
Let's look at it from the network marketers aspect.

As a mentor and entrepreneur, I've experienced these stages
of truth and I know you have as well. I'm talking about the
days of being ridiculed, violently opposed and finally self- evidence.

Ridicule
When each of us first stepped out to start our own business
or undertake anything that was new or different from the masses,
we were ridiculed harshly. Whether it was by our friends, or
family members, maybe both, it was harsh.

Those people labeled you as crazy for wanting to make a better
life for yourself. They told you not to expect much, and don't
dream big and don't get your hopes up. That was being ridiculed.

Violently Opposed
As you didn't listen to the criticism and you continued to work
on reaching your dreams, you encountered much opposition.
You even began to question yourself about "is this really for me?",
"am I doing the right thing?".

Everything that can go wrong does, in order to detour you. Finally,
you start to see some results and pay off, but not nearly what you
hoped for. At this point you hold on to your dream and trust in
yourself and your ability to perform.

You went against the grain and worked hard on yourself. When you
plan, do, review and adjust your activities, things will come
together for you everytime. Inspite of all who violently opposed
you.

Self Evidence
Final stage, you are seeing even greater results from your diligent
efforts. Things are flowing for you and people are starting to see
evidence of your success. The congratulations and accolades are
coming in because you made it through.

All of a sudden, the dream crashers are sugar coating their words,
saying "I knew YOU would make it!", or "I believed in you all along".
You are now part of the five percentage because you had staying power.

These stages could be compared to learning how to ride a bike.
At first, you will crash a few times, even lose momentum, but you
get right back up and try it again until you are riding confidently
in the breeze.

Remember, whenever you step out to pursue your dreams, there will
always be those who criticize what you do. Reason being, they are
looking through different lenses. It's the way they view the world.

So, go against the grain and make your dreams happen. Forget about
the naysayers. "heart has its reason, the mind knows nothing about."

Live your truths, let me help guide you!
MLM Truths

Rena Willaims

MLM 5 Sponsoring Secrets

Steps To a Proven System

There are 5 steps to growing a successful network marketing
business.

1. Targeted lead generation 2. Automated prospect follow-up
3. One-on-one relationship building 4. Sponsoring and 5. Training.

If you were to have a single system to perform all these functions,
so much the better. If your MLM company or upline group does not
provide system(s) to accomplish these targets, you absolutely have
to set them up yourself. But it's a lot easier to go someplace where
they understand these MLM sponsoring secrets and already have
an established, tested and proven system.

Let's talk a little bit about each secret.

Targeted lead generation. Why do you want to build the dream for
somebody else? How do you think you're ever going to make some-
body have a dream? You only want to talk to people who ALREADY
have the dreams, the goals, the desire to be successful.

These are the warriors. These are the people who will build the
business, no matter what. These are the people you want to target.

So, how do you find them?

You promote a website that has only one objective: To capture
contact information. So when a visitor comes to your site, their only
options are sign up or leave. And you do your best to make them an
offer they cannot refuse. I prefer to offer people a great ebook
because Leaders are Readers.

Automated prospect follow-up. The secret in network marketing is
in following up with people. People are busy, our lives are busy. It's
best to have an automated email system going out to these
prospects. These emails need to be written by a professional
copywriter who knows how to tweak the mind, answer questions,
create a relationship in print. You want your automated follow-up
to create a relationship with ad copy.

It's good to have an automated follow-up system in case you want to
go on vacation, on a company-sponsored, week-long trip. Your follow
ups will be in place.

One-on-one relationship building: This is your most important MLM
sponsoring secret. Network marketing is a relationship business. You
want to sponsor them one at a time and bring them in one at a time.
The only way you can do that is to build a one-on-one relationship
with those people. This is crucial because if you build people,
people will build your business.

Sponsoring. Sponsoring means we will be friends for life. So wouldn't
you rather sponsor people that you want to associate with? My
mentor told me, "Only sponsor people that you'd want to go
on a one month cruise with."

Training is absolutely the lifeblood of your business. Teaching,
training, coaching and mentoring new people on how to do network
marketing is a must.

You'd better have a team website. You'd better have a step-by-step
Action Plan, if you intend to train/teach your people in the skills of
how to do MLM.

It's mandatory that you have a system that duplicates, meaning if it'll
work for one it'll work for all. To have long-term success, you MUST
have a proven and tested marketing system for your opportunity.
I love our system because it works, it offers total training in the skills
of working with people, so that you get better and better ‚ and your
people can plug into exactly the same system, making it far easier for
you to help them as you gain more and more experience.

Need help in locating quality training with a proven system?
Go here!

I Appreciate You,

Rena Williams

The Why Behind Your WHY

What are your reasons for doing the things View Video
that you are doing in the world today?

We are told that our why has to be big
enough to sustain all the down falls
we may encounter on our way to the success
we desire.

Here's a video of a little fellow who has
one of the world's biggest why's.

Enjoy this amazing story!
Tell Me Why

Need help crafting your why? Join our
free mentoring group
Mentoring For Free!

Rena Williams